List of reasons why being single is super awesome

[bigbobchamp]

After seeing the S.O. thread over and over, I decided it was time.


- Freedom to be anywhere or do anything
- Minimal drama
- Saving $$$$


Keep em coming! lol

[admarino11]

^^^^^^^^^^
TOTALLY AGREE!

get to eat whatever i want
less worry
more girl time
more sleep
no meeting awkward family memebers

[bigbobchamp]

- increased sense of identity
- less stress
- more time with friends

[admarino11]

less shaving is required :-o

[Denny Way]

After seeing the S.O. thread over and over, I decided it was time.


- Freedom to be anywhere or do anything
- Minimal drama
- Saving $$$$


Keep em coming! lol

^^^^^^^^^^
TOTALLY AGREE!

get to eat whatever i want
less worry
more girl time
more sleep
no meeting awkward family memebers

-freedom to being anywhere or do anything: depending on what type of partner do you have. we mostly have similar likes to my partner and this thing is not a problem
-minimal drama: there might be but there's nothing like make-up sex afterwards
-savings: to be honest, I saved more money now compared to being single, bills and etc got split up.
-get to eat whatever i want: I'm married and I can eat whatever and wherever I want and most of the time I don't have to pay coz he's paying.
-less worry: mmm maybe but depends on what kind of worry.
-more girl time: I have pretty much the same amount of time of myself, some of my boring times with myself before got replaced with "boy times", fishing, bbq etc.
more sleep: I slept the same amount of time, the good thing is I can have sex before sleep. lol
-no meeting awkward family member: this thing I really don't care about, I married my husband, not his parents, cousins, weird uncles etc..

Sorry, just my opinion. Peace

[xxthat girlxx]

- you decide what channel to watch/what music plays in the car
- no one to hog blankets

[MoN]

Haha this is hilarious! And I agree w/ Denny Way... I have all of this being in a steady relationship of over 4 years. The only thing I miss is the less shaving time!! haha

And if you dont have any or most of this while in a relationship, RUN FAST! VERY FAST AWAY from that person and onto the next!

Ok Im done crashing your thread now Bob, you all may continue with my great entertainment :lol:

Edit: Haha Sarah has some really good ones though!

[Denny Way]

-less shaving required: Depends on what body parts are we talking. I do shave, well I work in an office and being a lady we should take care of ourselves single or not. Down there...my partner says, if it's always shaved, it's like having the same dinner all the time, while on the other hand, there's some mystery behind, classic 80's, if you know what I mean.

Before, I watched the foo fighters concert ALONE because non of my friends are available, one of the saddest moments in my life.

[admarino11]

-freedom to being anywhere or do anything: depending on what type of partner do you have. we mostly have similar likes to my partner and this thing is not a problem
-minimal drama: there might be but there's nothing like make-up sex afterwards
-savings: to be honest, I saved more money now compared to being single, bills and etc got split up.
-get to eat whatever i want: I'm married and I can eat whatever and wherever I want and most of the time I don't have to pay coz he's paying.
-less worry: mmm maybe but depends on what kind of worry.
-more girl time: I have pretty much the same amount of time of myself, some of my boring times with myself before got replaced with "boy times", fishing, bbq etc.
more sleep: I slept the same amount of time, the good thing is I can have sex before sleep. lol
-no meeting awkward family member: this thing I really don't care about, I married my husband, not his parents, cousins, weird uncles etc..

Sorry, just my opinion. Peace

:banned from thread:
:-o

[Denny Way]

With all seriousness though, I chimed in because I find it funny in some ways. Just want to express my opinion coz I've been in the situation and I can see the difference. I'm sure there are advantages of being both. Sorry again.

[bigbobchamp]

- the ability to gain independence / love for oneself
- casual sex (IE freedom to leave afterward)
- no one to disappoint


My dad and I had long talks about this while hiking yesterday: It's amazing how many people think they've found themselves after they found someone else. News flash! All you did was find someone else, not yourself. Identity is about you, not your relationship. And identity is everything.

[bigbobchamp]

- You don't have to listen to someone complain

[buniboo]

I still have all of those things in my life (minus the casulal sex). Even my independence and knowing who I am and what I want out of life. You can still have all of this while being in a relationship. :P

[xxthat girlxx]

I think people are taking this thread the wrong way. The point it it's okay to be single. Too many people seriously can't be without a significant other. There are positives to being in and out of a relationship. :)

For those in relationships, I think be whole independence thing people are also taking the wrong way. Just because you have a partner that isn't controlling does not mean you make 100% of your decisions independently. Especially if you are in a serious relationship. It's natural to say I'm going to go out with the girls so they can plan accordingly for dinner/entertainment. I'm pretty sure no one just doesn't go home. I have no one to go home to so I literally do what I want when I want with no consideration to others. If I had a live in boyfriend I would expect to know that he's going to get drinks after work with co-workers so I don't make too much dinner or so that I can plan for myself. Doesn't mean he is expected to ask permission.

Hope that helps with what I see as the context of this thread. :)

[xxthat girlxx]

Edit: Haha Sarah has some really good ones though!

Thanks!!! :)

[bigbobchamp]

I still have all of those things in my life (minus the casulal sex). Even my independence and knowing who I am and what I want out of life. You can still have all of this while being in a relationship. :P

What if you wanted to go to New Zealand for a year starting next month and get a job at a cafe? :)

[buniboo]

What if you wanted to go to New Zealand for a year starting next month and get a job at a cafe? :)

If that is what I really wanted to do, then I'm sure he would stick by my side. We may be "together" but there are aspects of our lives that are separate. I have supported him in the decisions and choice he has made. I am sure he would do the same for me, as long as I was happy.

[admarino11]

- the ability to gain independence / love for oneself
- casual sex (IE freedom to leave afterward)
- no one to disappoint


My dad and I had long talks about this while hiking yesterday: It's amazing how many people think they've found themselves after they found someone else. News flash! All you did was find someone else, not yourself. Identity is about you, not your relationship. And identity is everything.

Wow. Just wow. That's deep And so accurate :highfive:

[admarino11]

I think people are taking this thread the wrong way. The point it it's okay to be single. Too many people seriously can't be without a significant other. There are positives to being in and out of a relationship. :)

Hope that helps with what I see as the context of this thread. :)

i agree that people are taking this thread out of context. not to sound mean - but us single peeps dont go into the S.O. thread and talk about how awesome single life is, so why come to our thread and talk about how awesome relationships are
just sayin

[bigbobchamp]

There are some relationships where you can have most of those things. Based on my time in various relationships, time spent with adults in both successful and failed relationships, and most importantly, my time with some folks that study this for a living (one of 'em a Harvard PHD / apprentice of Dr Lawrence Kohlberg), they're really, really rare. I'd say less than 10% of relationships actually consist of an interdependent partnership. Of course, I'm sure at least 80% of people in relationships think that they're in that 10%. I find that most men and male friends of mine in relationships (some of some seriously high prestige) settle on having a highly dependent significant other (even my own father).

Based on the incredibly low odds of two highly independent adults actually becoming a pair, I say single ain't so bad. Plus there's no way I nor anyone I know could ever go after the career goals I'm chasing right now without being single.

I was out to dinner with a couple guys the other night that you could say are big important people in motorsports, and at some point it occurred to the three of us that over a few month time span we were all leaving our significant others because of dependency issues.


Continuing on....
- I can work long hours to achieve my goals with no guilt
- I can't get in trouble when I'm out to play
- being single is just damn fun sometimes

;)

[Sugarpie]

Oh thank god there is a thread for us single folks!


Why being single is awesome, I can do whatever the floop I want.

[Sugarpie]

Don't know whats going on as far as the folks with relationship bonds going in this thread but really, I get so tired of having people in relationships (that aren't all peaches and cherries like they post on FB or online) lecturing me about settling down. The key word in settling down is settle. I've done that. I married the wrong one. Lesson learned and now I'm divorced. Now I'm free to explore both the world and my place in it and make a choice of the right one versus the right one for now.

[xxthat girlxx]

I was out to dinner with a couple guys the other night that you could say are big important people in motorsports, and at some point it occurred to the three of us that over a few month time span we were all leaving our significant others because of dependency issues.

Just to be clear, I don't know all three of these people and their specific situations. But I'm slightly offended by that comment. I know you enough and I know what your career goals are enough to say there is NO WAY IN HELL I would even THINK of dating you (or someone like you) just based on the fact that you travel so much. And that has nothing to do with me having "dependancy issues."

I've been in relationships with people who lived 1.5 hours away from me and saw them on weekends only and I had a relationship with someone who lived 15 mins. from me. I preferred being able to grab lunch on a whim. I liked being surprised with an iced chai while I was at work. I liked making dinner after work w/o having to drive 1.5 hours to make it. That doesn't make me dependant.

Long term, I want a guy who wants what I want. And that's a nice house, picket fence, cute dog and a huge garage with lots of cars. And I don't want to be alone at home waiting for you to "be ready" for what I want.

Also, I could date a quite attractive, athletic guy with a very yummy accent and he travels less than you (but a lot of time internationally) and I just won't even bother. Is it fine in the now? Yeah, probably, but long term I have no interest in being left alone at home raising a family by myself.

/end femanist rant

[Sugarpie]

I actually broke up with two guys because of dependency issues. They both were needy, whiny and wanted me to coddle them like their mothers did. If I wanted to raise a kid, I'd have one. I haven't so they had to go. Dependency Issues really are a way of saying, "you're just not right for me." They weren't. They were great guys, we just didn't have enough of a bond to make it work.

[bigbobchamp]

Just to be clear, I don't know all three of these people and their specific situations. But I'm slightly offended by that comment. I know you enough and I know what your career goals are enough to say there is NO WAY IN HELL I would even THINK of dating you (or someone like you) just based on the fact that you travel so much. And that has nothing to do with me having "dependancy issues."

My speaking of dependence, independence, and interdependence have nothing to do with travel. But if you must know, in my personal situation, my increased travel was a result of the dependency issues, not the cause. I'd rather leave someone to sort themselves out rather than be the sponge in their identity crisis. The two guys I was with travel probably 15 weekends a year.

If a person doesn't know who they are than it doesn't really matter where their significant other is. The point is to bring something to the table, to add to the team, not need the team in order to exist as an individual in the first place.

[admarino11]

^ good stuff

continuing on...

- pass gass freely
- take vacations whenever with who ever
- more freedom to try new things
- spend MY money on whatever I want
- not having to adapt to someone elses ways

[admarino11]

Freedom to be bad!!!!
It's fun to be bad. :devil: wink

[xxthat girlxx]

My speaking of dependence, independence, and interdependence have nothing to do with travel. But if you must know, in my personal situation, my increased travel was a result of the dependency issues, not the cause. I'd rather leave someone to sort themselves out rather than be the sponge in their identity crisis. The two guys I was with travel probably 15 weekends a year.

If a person doesn't know who they are than it doesn't really matter where their significant other is. The point is to bring something to the table, to add to the team, not need the team in order to exist as an individual in the first place.

Thank you for clarifying that. Your first post seemed like said busy/motorsports/traveling men you mentioned had dependency issues b/c of their profession/hobby/traveling.

And I agree with needing to know who you are.

[bigbobchamp]

Freedom to be bad!!!!
It's fun to be bad. :devil: wink

+1 :D


Forgot one of the most important reasons why I like being single:

- time to improve myself so that I have more to offer to the person I will eventually wind up with who will also likely be way more awesome than anyone I can get now. If you're gonna try to find someone to be with forever, patience and focus won't let you down.

[rick moranis fan]

Toilet seat: UP

[xxthat girlxx]

Toilet seat: UP

And this is why you are my friend, Bob :)

[Khanh]

Because a lot of the reasons in this thread. ;)

[baggedwagonchick]

never having to answer to anyone but you, although I'm not single I still remember the days of being able to hop in my car and drive wherever whenver I felt like it and just being able to do things at spur of the moment

[admarino11]

thought i posted this one already but didnt see it

- ability to try new things that are of interest. so important, and without being able to try you may miss out on something you love

in my last relationship my guy was really conservative with money, and while i am also - i still know that life is about experience and you are going to have to spend money to experience things...
so in the last 6 mos i have tried snow boarding and totally love it, i traveled to miami for the first time and will go at least once a year now. These are just a couple things i would never have been able to experience before and i am soooo glad i have :)

[admarino11]

bump it yo!

- no dealing with crazy families :)

[JaclynWRX03]

thought i posted this one already but didnt see it

- ability to try new things that are of interest. so important, and without being able to try you may miss out on something you love

in my last relationship my guy was really conservative with money, and while i am also - i still know that life is about experience and you are going to have to spend money to experience things...
so in the last 6 mos i have tried snow boarding and totally love it, i traveled to miami for the first time and will go at least once a year now. These are just a couple things i would never have been able to experience before and i am soooo glad i have :)

yes! love this.

[bigbobchamp]

You have no choice but to learn to grow up without using someone else as a crutch for your personal issues.

[AKLGT]

I believe that though I may not be single (or haven't been TECHNICALLY single in a long time) I can relate to most of your points listed and they are true. Nothing really screams out that you are in a BAD relationship than when you dream of FREEDOM! Not having to answer to the beck and call, the crying or the accusations because you stayed late at work to finish a project (but he knows you're screwing someone else!), the destruction of self loathing and insecurity or the stress of having a spouse who doesn't know who they are and depends on you for their entire happiness. only YOU are responsible for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS! You cannot put it on another person. It's not fair to them, and certainly in no way shape or form is it remotely healthy!

I was in a long relationship (marriage) but deep down I was truly single and alone being with someone who didn't know me, had no interest in knowing me, or interest in anything I did except to make accusations.

I currently am in another relationship, just over a year but we both understand how busy one another is. I make plans and include him, invite him, but know his schedule is opposite of mine and we have our own friends as well as mutual. I do my thing, he does his, we plan things together as we can but all in all, this is the closest to an independent relationship I've ever had. All my others have been extremely co-dependent and unhealthy!

So if you are in a relationship and you read the above and WISH/HOPE you could be there now, it is time to GET OUT!

[AKLGT]

You have no choice but to learn to grow up without using someone else as a crutch for your personal issues.
exactly!

my motto has always been:

"if you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you too?"

[admarino11]

^^^ im loving all of the above :D

[KatieO]

Not having to answer to the beck and call, the crying or the accusations because you stayed late at work to finish a project (but he knows you're screwing someone else!), the destruction of self loathing and insecurity or the stress of having a spouse who doesn't know who they are and depends on you for their entire happiness. only YOU are responsible for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS! You cannot put it on another person. It's not fair to them, and certainly in no way shape or form is it remotely healthy!



Quoted for truth.

[bigbobchamp]

Yes^^

[bigbobchamp]

more reasons:
- freedom to assist others in getting out of their current relationships :p
- freedom to help friends of opposite sex rebound from recently ended relationships :lol:

[shefledthescene]

:lol: being single is super awesome. I've seen the light!

[Sugarpie]

I have to say all the "reasons" in here are awesome. :)

For the first time in a long time, I have no interest in getting involved with someone. I'm perfectly happy being on my own and this feels freaking great!

[admarino11]

more reasons:
- freedom to assist others in getting out of their current relationships :p
- freedom to help friends of opposite sex rebound from recently ended relationships :lol:

^ lol THIS!

[AKLGT]

more reasons:
- freedom to assist others in getting out of their current relationships :p
- freedom to help friends of opposite sex rebound from recently ended relationships :lol:
Lol. My bf seems to think this was great. He readily made himself single and available for me to cry on his shoulder when I finally made my move out of my marriage. Lmao.

[bigbobchamp]

more reasons:
- freedom to assist others in getting out of their current relationships :p
- freedom to help friends of opposite sex rebound from recently ended relationships :lol:
Came across this shirt and reminded me of this post :lol:

http://centralvalleymoms.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/homewrecker.jpg

[admarino11]

lolzzzz

[MoN]

No one to keep you up late, or wake you up too early with all the noise of slamming drawers!!

[admarino11]

No one to keep you up late, or wake you up too early with all the noise of slamming drawers!!

how rude :) :rolleyes:

[PinkTWRX]

No one to keep you up late, or wake you up too early with all the noise of slamming drawers!!

omg +1 x a bazillion



the one downside of being single, is being a single mom or dad. :sadbanana:

[shefledthescene]

ive been single for exactly 1 month now. it's been the best month i've had in years :) yay to being single! :banana:

[Arie]

Been single for 2 years. There are times when it's bonzer and times when it's bollocks.

[Sugarpie]

I've been single for going on 3 and its glorious. I love not having to deal with petty b.s..

[xxthat girlxx]

Been single for 2 years. There are times when it's bonzer and times when it's bollocks.

Well said... Bonzer and bollucks.




I feel like it was already mentioned but if not: spontaneity for yourself/your wants/your needs is easier when single.

[bigbobchamp]

No one to upset when you're 3 hours late getting home because you were out doing something that you love.

[PinkTWRX]

Rediscovering the difference between being alone, lonliness, and making it on your own after being in a long term relationship.

[admarino11]

ive been single for exactly 1 month now. it's been the best month i've had in years :) yay to being single! :banana:
live it up - ive been single since last Oct, almost one year :)
I've been single for going on 3 and its glorious. I love not having to deal with petty b.s..
tru dat
Rediscovering the difference between being alone, lonliness, and making it on your own after being in a long term relationship.
well said Pink :love:

[admarino11]

No one to upset when you're 3 hours late getting home because you were out doing something that you love.

piggy back on your comment --> no such thing as getting home "late" teeheee.... we can get home whenever we damn well please

[bigbobchamp]

Having a chick thing you're gay and then buy you a bunch of beer after finding out you're not.

(first night out in Hartford area. not bad :lol:)

[admarino11]

Having a chick thing you're gay and then buy you a bunch of beer after finding out you're not.

(first night out in Hartford area. not bad :lol:)

hahahhahahaha
well not bad other than the chick thinking u are gay lolz

[xxthat girlxx]

Having a chick thing you're gay and then buy you a bunch of beer after finding out you're not.

(first night out in Hartford area. not bad :lol:)

You're so meeeeetro.

[bigbobchamp]

I was wearing standard quicksilver shorts, a hawaii t-shirt, and flip flops at a bar with a bunch of collared shirt wearing, cubicle loving, finance graduates. :)

[MoN]

Ya ummm, you should know the eastern coast better than that Bob. Anyone would think your gay wearing that around these necks of the woods! :lol:

[Sugarpie]

I live in a beach town, he would be considered a Hipster here for wearing that and would probably have a lot of chicks on his arm. lol.

[MoN]

^Lol its so funny how different geographic areas perceive people based on what they wear. Its pretty bad and sad... :( We shouldnt judge a book by its cover... Bob because of you I will no longer perceive guys w/ floral shirts and flip flops hanging out at a bar, homosexuals... okay reality check... i dunno thats still kinda hard to do... :lol:

Hey this brings up another reason why being single is awsome:
No GF/BF to tell you that you are not going out in public w/ them wearing whatever you are wearing :)

[bigbobchamp]

I wasn't wearing a "Hawaiian Shirt", I said "Hawaii shirt" (t-shirt (http://cache1.bigcartel.com/product_images/25257881/808allday_SCRIPT_TEE_copy.jpg) LOL).

And on your last note, despite my ex-gf being somewhat of a fashionista, I do feel like she still held me back on what I wanted to wear. After we split I bought myself some hipster jeans and a bunch of other fun stuff that I felt she would have criticized.

[xxthat girlxx]

I wasn't wearing a "Hawaiian Shirt", I said "Hawaii shirt" (t-shirt (http://cache1.bigcartel.com/product_images/25257881/808allday_SCRIPT_TEE_copy.jpg) LOL).

And on your last note, despite my ex-gf being somewhat of a fashionista, I do feel like she still held me back on what I wanted to wear. After we split I bought myself some hipster jeans and a bunch of other fun stuff that I felt she would have criticized.

Uhhhh... in my mind you always wore hipster jeans. I'd like to see side by side comparisons of before/after.

Also, are you allowed to wear Thursday shirts again? ;)

[bigbobchamp]

I wear what I want! Plus I think being on my own has inspired me to dress nicer in general.


Oh, and reason to be a single guy: walk around the house in nothing but t-shirt!!!!!!!!!































http://www.vtrides.com/forum/images/smiles/puke.gif

[PinkTWRX]

Same could be said for ladies. :lol:

That way we don't have to worry about some guy always trying to play grab ass with us.

[bigbobchamp]

muumuu!!!

[admarino11]

I wear what I want! Plus I think being on my own has inspired me to dress nicer in general.


Oh, and reason to be a single guy: walk around the house in nothing but t-shirt!!!!!!!!!































http://www.vtrides.com/forum/images/smiles/puke.gif

im not gonna lie - i walk around the house nakid often :banana: why not?! lol

[MoN]

^haaahahaha

[bigbobchamp]

Guy wearing nothing but t-shirt way worse than guy being naked. Not the same for girls

[Sugarpie]

Single awesome fact#1, big bed alllllll to myself. :D


I have sleep issues and am an infamously light sleeper so I do not mind sleeping by myself. To date, I've only found one man I can sleep in the same bed with and be totally at ease and we are not together.

[bigbobchamp]

Hrm, not a plus for being single to me. I could share a twin size with someone and be totally content.

But to continue the fun, add to the list of reasons why being single is awesome:
sharing a twin size with people

[jnh717]

:[QUOTE=bigbobchamp;44118]I wasn't wearing a "Hawaiian Shirt", I said "Hawaii shirt" (t-shirt (http://cache1.bigcartel.com/product_images/25257881/808allday_SCRIPT_TEE_copy.jpg) LOL).

all i can think of is office space...."hhhhawaiian shirt day" lmao :lol:

[PinkTWRX]

Hrm, not a plus for being single to me. I could share a twin size with someone and be totally content.

But to continue the fun, add to the list of reasons why being single is awesome:
sharing a twin size with random people

fixed

[admarino11]

^ hhahahahaha nice

[JiveDara]

I like being single because you don't:
--Get the stinkeye from your guy when you tell him he has a better chance of getting in your pants than in your driver's seat.

--Get crap from your bf/gf when you get looks because of the car you drive.

Most of our cars are dick-magnets... It happens! Hahah.

[Sugarpie]

I like being single because you don't:
--Get the stinkeye from your guy when you tell him he has a better chance of getting in your pants than in your driver's seat.

--Get crap from your bf/gf when you get looks because of the car you drive.

Most of our cars are dick-magnets... It happens! Hahah.

Must be a Texas thing ( I used to live there lol) because out here in VA, guys love the subies but they seem scared crapless of a woman with one. I refer to Subies as fun cars for married people. They're practical AND fun. I say this because every single last guy i meet with one is married, engaged or whipped so much he might as well be one or the other. I was in a relationship when I got mine and happily out now.

[Nick]

I have had 5 Subarus in the last 8 years, 3 at once for a while, and was single for almost half of that time. They are fun cars for single people too :)

[Sugarpie]

Maybe it's because I live in a military town but it's weird.

[turboranger]

I can no longer add to this thread lol...


YEA! its actually kind of nice :D

[bigbobchamp]

to the list:
I can spoil someone without them already being spoiled / jaded by something similarly already done

[Buffy617]

idk lol. I wouldn't remember....

[OMGPB]

I like being single because it's hilarious to see some of the guys my friends try to hook me up with. I got a text overnight from a guy friend I haven't talked to in a bit(saw it this morning). It read:

"Do you still live here? Do you have any interest in taking a boy off my hands?"

THEN:

[pic of said boy]

THEN:

[pic of said boy's car]


I sent him a message this morning and told him that I loved that he knew me well enough that along with any male inquiries must be information or pictures of their cars. Super lol.

[admarino11]

I like being single because it's hilarious to see some of the guys my friends try to hook me up with. I got a text overnight from a guy friend I haven't talked to in a bit(saw it this morning). It read:

"Do you still live here? Do you have any interest in taking a boy off my hands?"

THEN:

[pic of said boy]

THEN:

[pic of said boy's car]


I sent him a message this morning and told him that I loved that he knew me well enough that along with any male inquiries must be information or pictures of their cars. Super lol.

hahahhaa :lol:

[xxthat girlxx]

HA. That's pretty awesome, Michelle.

[- Rach -]

Must be a Texas thing ( I used to live there lol) because out here in VA, guys love the subies but they seem scared crapless of a woman with one. I refer to Subies as fun cars for married people. They're practical AND fun. I say this because every single last guy i meet with one is married, engaged or whipped so much he might as well be one or the other. I was in a relationship when I got mine and happily out now.

I guess it's not only in VA... Guys act the same in NH: Scared crapless of a woman in a subie.

Countless times when I was single, guys were scared to death of me... and the fact that I'm a "tell it how it is" kinda of person... :lol: Ahhhhh oh I love sarcasm.

[xxthat girlxx]

Rach, I'm pretty sure I intimidate the male specimen too.

[bigbobchamp]

I ain't skurred.

[bigbobchamp]

You can sit in your underwear eating pizza at 1am discussing bad dates and bad jokes via text without anyone around to judge you.

[xxthat girlxx]

I ain't skurred.

That's because I'm on the bottom of your meter. ;)

You can sit in your underwear eating pizza at 1am discussing bad dates and bad jokes via text without anyone around to judge you.

Heart!! PS - Thanks for making me laugh. :)




I know it was already said - but I was just reminded how nice sleeping alone in your bed is. I don't know if I'm ready to give it up!! :lol:

[bigbobchamp]

Meh. Im a super snuggler, so no plus for me on that front. I could honestly sleep w/ someones full weight on me and be content lol.

[PinkTWRX]

Snuggles ftw.


I think it's been said. But I'm gonna say it again. Being able to walk out the door no questions asked. No 3rd degree on who, what, where, or why.

[xxthat girlxx]

Meh. Im a super snuggler, so no plus for me on that front. I could honestly sleep w/ someones full weight on me and be content lol.

I never said I wasn't a super suggler. And I am totally the little spoon. Buuuut it's a long time and now I will have to readjust. :lol:

[Lo.]

Guys are so funny...when I was single, guys would talk to me online through fb or nasioc but then when they'd see me at meets or whatever they would never even approach me :lol:

[JiveDara]

Guys are so funny...when I was single, guys would talk to me online through fb or nasioc but then when they'd see me at meets or whatever they would never even approach me :lol:

Same thing here! There was a meet at cobb last thursday and I got stared at as I rolled up, but nobody would talk to me. What a bunch of wieners.

[bigbobchamp]

Subaru geeks like me are just shy like that.......

[Lo.]

Hahahah such wieners!

But then random men in trucks can follow me off the freeway and ask for my number. I think I prefer the shyness...eek!! :lol:

[PinkTWRX]

I dunno I get lots of guys to talk to me... they just never wanna "talk" to me IRL :lol:

It's ok though... I know which ones I would go for and which ones i wouldn't... I am ok with making the first moves. *shrug*

[bannerd]

You can sit in your underwear eating pizza at 1am discussing bad dates and bad jokes via text without anyone around to judge you.

Toss the underwear... hell... toss all the clothes. I'm single and I love the freedom (looking for a lady though) yet one day I had a second thought. I was walking around my house naked waiting for the clothes to dry in the dryer. I had orange juice and some toast in my hand. The mail lady (Whom is gorgeous) sees me standing next to my leather coat and I saw her. In shock I froze... she froze.. both looking at each other in the most strange moment in my entire life. I waived to her and that broke the awkwardness.

So here is a toast to freedom!

[admarino11]

Toss the underwear... hell... toss all the clothes. I'm single and I love the freedom (looking for a lady though) yet one day I had a second thought. I was walking around my house naked waiting for the clothes to dry in the dryer. I had orange juice and some toast in my hand. The mail lady (Whom is gorgeous) sees me standing next to my leather coat and I saw her. In shock I froze... she froze.. both looking at each other in the most strange moment in my entire life. I waived to her and that broke the awkwardness.

So here is a toast to freedom!

HAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHA :eek::lol:

[xxthat girlxx]

HAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHA :eek::lol:

I agree. That is hilarious. :lol:


Being single is good because there is no other personality to clash with.

[admarino11]

no heart break...

[admarino11]

im glad i live on the top floor so i dont have to worry about people seeing me thru the window lolz

[Khanh]

Moves into apartment below Angela, buys periscope. :P

[admarino11]

Moves into apartment below Angela, buys periscope. :P

lmao u sick fuc# :lol:

[admarino11]

challenging yourself to walk up to a guy in a bar to ask him out ;)
- just a reminder of personal strength <3

[bigbobchamp]

challenging yourself to ignore a small crowd of desperate looking females in davis sq only to give in when one walks by and smacks your ass so that you feel awkward not to say anything.

[MrsPMS]

less shaving is required :-o

LOL that is true but I hate hair so I would shave regardless. ;)

[xxthat girlxx]

challenging yourself to ignore a small crowd of desperate looking females in davis sq only to give in when one walks by and smacks your ass so that you feel awkward not to say anything.

I still can't believe the lot of you wanted me to wing-woman last night. :rolleyes:

[bigbobchamp]

you should have!

[xxthat girlxx]

you should have!

Find me a better looking guy to detain and yes. :p

[bigbobchamp]

Worst wing-woman ever. Don't you know it has nothing to do with you? Oh the people I've pretended to be interested to help a friend out....

[xxthat girlxx]

Worst wing-woman ever. Don't you know it has nothing to do with you? Oh the people I've pretended to be interested to help a friend out....

I WAS helping you. Those girls were 12 and they weren't even that great looking. :rolleyes:

[admarino11]

I WAS helping you. Those girls were 12 and they weren't even that great looking. :rolleyes:

: :popcorn: :

[bigbobchamp]

Worst wing-woman ever.

:p:p:p

[Khanh]

I WAS helping you. Those girls were 12 and they weren't even that great looking. :rolleyes:

Pfft.

Obligatory OT only Bangs Supermodels.

[bigbobchamp]

And one of them was totally in the preferred section of my 10 scale! *runs*

[xxthat girlxx]

And one of them was totally in the preferred section of my 10 scale! *runs*

Seriously?!?!? None of those girls were even close to 'dream girl.'

[Lo.]

hahahahhahahha :lol: :lol: :lol: this thread always makes me laugh.

[Khanh]

Seriously?!?!? None of those girls were even close to 'dream girl.'

Isn't that why she's dream girl?

[admarino11]

"Problem with your order? Email me! (Khanh(at)KHDPhoto.com)
DO NOT PM xxthat girlxx or PinkTWRX. They can't help you! "

:lol::lol::lol:

[Khanh]

:rolleyes: Whattt?

[bigbobchamp]

Isn't that why she's dream girl?

Srsly. "Preferred section" is a range in which dream girl is only a point near the top. We've gone over this.

[admarino11]

One could argue that we may not be able to find all we want in just one person; meaning it benefits us to have multiple people in our life to serve multiple purposes ;):p

[admarino11]

:rolleyes: Whattt?

i find that comical :)

[Sugarpie]

Being single means when hot azz Navy SeALs are running in front of me at the park, I can check out every visible inch of their backside without someone whining or being jealous next to me.

I can do the same at the store.

Or at the beach.

or at car meets or wherever else hot manbutt is to be seen.

[Joslin Rae]

^ :lol::lol::lol::lol:

[PinkTWRX]

Mmmmmm manbutt. *drools*

[MoN]

Hahhahahaa great point Sugarpie!!

[bigbobchamp]

Reason to be single: total. mischief.

And jealous married friends :lol:

[Khanh]

Get denied? No problem, move onto the next chick without giving a damn what the first chick thinks.

[admarino11]

no one to tell you who you can and cant be friends with

[xxthat girlxx]

^No one to tell you who you can or can't flirt with.

[Sugarpie]

No one to say, "are you really wearing that out?" referring to your cleavage/skirt length.




Not like that would stop me but still