Quick Question

[sleepy04]

So I'm pretty drunk riught now, which is whty i'm asking this. Plus this isnt NASICX so i'm hopefuly i won't get flammed the fuck out of here. but anyway...

For any one of you girls who is engaged or has benn engaged. If you knew a guy was head over heels for you, and you had just hgotten engaged to someomne else. Would you email him everyday 59 times a day, hangout wiht him after work, call him and text him all the time especilly when he was drunk and would say stupid shit to you, and go out to dinner and stuff witht him. You know, just basically act like you like you were dating him?

Fuck i am so frustrated it is not even funny. I love this girl, she is so fucking perfect it's not even funny. We have so much in common lulz. She is so comletely amazing, srsly, Why the fuck can't i just find normal girls who would like me. When ever we are together i feel like a real person finally but whatever.

So anyway i;m sorry i just needed to rant a little cause my life is the suck. and this has been sitting on my chest for a while now and i just had to get it out.

[xxthat girlxx]

I am very sorry that you are in this situation. I have come to understand that men and women will never be "just friends." At one point one of them is attracted to or has feelings for the other that go beyond friendship. Some are able to make it past this, others are not (my sister's best friend [a male] recently stopped speaking to her/returning her calls because she started dating someone [a different male]).

It sounds like she digs you. But I will say, some women find men easy to have close friendships with. So hard to tell. I'm surprised her fiance hasn't asked questions yet and told you about him doing so.

Cheer up drunky! The right one is out there for you somewhere!

[sleepy04]

Hes in boston, so i doubt he knows. its just so frustrating cause i really think she is the one. even more than my ex who i dated for six years. and i feel like such a jerk for it.

btw-i knew her before she was engaged.

[07SubieQT]

I know it sux but, people always want what they cant have...Its human nature...Best thing is to just try to move on.. :(

[MoN]

First of, Do you two have more than a friendly relationship... and when I ask I mean what would SHE consider it? Second if there is something burning inside, then just straight out ask her what is it that she wants? Being straight up is the best way to get the answers to your questions from a woman, even if you may not like what you hear but at least you will know.... Good luck and I hope thing go well for you!

[Bugichic]

First of, Do you two have more than a friendly relationship... and when I ask I mean what would SHE consider it? Second if there is something burning inside, then just straight out ask her what is it that she wants? Being straight up is the best way to get the answers to your questions from a woman, even if you may not like what you hear but at least you will know.... Good luck and I hope thing go well for you!

I agree 100%. Good luck man

[sleepy04]

I swear computers and cell phones should come with breathalyzers built in to them to cut down on the drunk texts/posts/calls. They put them in cars, why not computers/cell phones. It would eliminate SO many problems.

This was just a drunk frustrated post. Whatever feelings i have for my friend will have to stay with me. I respect her to much to try to ruin her engagement like that. That would be a real d-bag manuever.

Besides she is one of the few really good friends that I have, and I would truly hate to ruin that. And I have a feeling that this would really ruin that.

[jessickascarling]

As long as you are okay with just being friends with her, sometimes it's better to try to work it out as a friend than something more. Good luck!